On this Mother’s Day, I want to share a story about a remarkable mom named Ann (not her real name) who have always touch me with her love for her family. Her son is a young adult with a mild intellectual disability who struggles with impulse control.
Whenever we chat, Ann opens up about her fears and doubts. She once asked me, “Will he learn and change?” Her voice trembled, and her eyes filled with tears. I reassured her that every effort she puts in, every tear she sheds, it all matters. Progress might be slow, but it’s a step forward. I explained, “He’s doing his best. He didn’t choose to misbehave. He knows right from wrong, but he struggles to do what’s right.” Ann nodded.
One day, she confided, “I feel so much anger and disappointment about how others treat my son. I used to believe that being nice to others would help my son, but this time I will speak up for him. I have nothing to lose.” True to her words, she found the courage to speak up for her son, to advocate for his needs. It was truly touching and inspiring. Her unwavering devotion is unquestionable.
Mommy Power
To all the moms out there, especially those raising kids with special needs, here’s my affirmation and encouragement for you:
- Your love is your superpower: Never underestimate the power of your love. It’s what keeps you going, even on the toughest days. Your unwavering love and support make a great impact on your child.
- Don’t be too harsh on yourself: Parenting is like riding a rollercoaster. Please be gentle and kind to yourself—it’s okay to affirm yourself, and it’s okay to practice self-care.
- Find joy in the little moments: Celebrate every small victory, no matter how insignificant it may seem to others. Those moments of joy are what keep you and your child going.
- It’s okay to ask for help: You don’t have to do it all alone. Reach out to friends, family, or professionals for support when you need it.
To Ann, and all the moms like her, you’re doing an amazing job.
Happy Mother’s Day!
